- cry
- get a post mortem
- call all family members to notify
- remind myself to be strong
- call lawyer about her will and if funeral arrangements have been specified.
- pick the church and discuss burial or cremation
- I'd smoke a lot of weed and be really numb for a long while
- find a therapist, keep reporting and communicating to distract myself
- video record myself with my last words to mother to help get closure, put that CD together with her urn or casket
- Put on strong face for everyone, and make her funeral about the appreciation of her life's influence, make it a 'proud and distinguished' ending to a great woman's life
Its better to have a ritual ready so u can just do it and get things done while ur mind goes blank at that time, you wont be able to think at all.
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